Skip to content
  • Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Skip to footer

Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC

Vermont Estate Planning Attorneys

Attend A Free Webinar Call: (802) 879-7133
  • Home
  • Our Firm
    • About Our Firm
    • Meet Our Team
  • Services
    • Estate Planning
    • Incapacity Planning
    • Long-Term Care Planning and Elder Law
    • Pet Planning
    • Special Needs Planning
    • Trust Administration
    • Young Families Planning
  • Resources
    • Articles
    • Elder Law Reports
    • Elder Law Resources
      • Burlington
      • Montpelier
      • Rutland
      • St. Johnsbury
      • White River Junction
    • Estate And Gift Tax Figures
    • Free Estate Planning Worksheet
    • Frequently Asked Questions
      • Alzheimer’s FAQs
      • Elder Law
        • In-Home Elder Care
        • Medicaid
        • Planning for Long-Term Care
      • Estate Planning
        • Business Succession Planning
        • Estate and Gift Tax
        • Estate Planning for Blended Families FAQ
        • Estate Planning for Parents
        • FAQs for Families Without an Estate Plan
        • LGBTQ Estate Planning
        • Taxes on Inheritances in Vermont
      • Incapacity Planning
      • Inheritance Planning for Minor Children
      • IRA & Retirement Planning
      • Gift, Estate, and Inheritance Taxes
      • Legacy Wealth Planning
      • Philanthropy and Estate Planning
      • Pet Planning
      • Revocable Living Trust
      • Special Needs Planning
      • Trust Administration
      • Trusts
      • Vermont Caregiver FAQs
      • Wills
    • Is Your Estate Plan Outdated?
    • Long-Term Care Planning and Medicaid Resources
      • Long-Term Care Planning Analysis
      • Vermont Medicaid
    • Reports
      • Advanced Estate Planning
      • Basic Estate Planning
      • Estate Planning for Niches
    • Top Estate Planning Techniques
  • Blog
  • Contact Us
    • Contact Our Firm
    • Consultation Resources
    • Pre-Consultation Video
Home Âğ Discussing Bequests with Your Heirs

Discussing Bequests with Your Heirs

January 28, 2013 by Stephen Unsworth

Receiving an inheritance can be a good thing; however, for some heirs, a sudden windfall can also be their downfall, especially if they are unprepared to handle a large sum of money. If when planning your estate, you intend to leave money to your children, it is important to consider their ability to handle that money and to make provisions in your will that are in their best interest. You cannot, however, just stop at making the bequest and setting for the provisions. You should talk to our heirs and explain their inheritance and your intentions as well.

Be open and honest. There is no reason to disinherit an heir just because you think they cannot handle the money on their own. Tell them what they are getting, the provisions you have made, and inform them of your expectations as well. If you feel that an heir cannot successfully handle the money you wish to leave them, consider a trust. A trustee can manage the funds, giving the heir an allowance on a scheduled basis. This way, the money is protected, as is your heir’s financial future.

Some people simply do not have any money sense. While you cannot always prevent this, even with the best of education strategies, you can at least attempt to help your heirs to understand money and how to manage it intelligently by talking to them and teaching them everything from basic budgeting to investing. Those with money to will typically have this kind of money sense. If not, help your loved ones by setting them up with some classes in finance or advice from a professional financial planner or advisor.

  • Author
  • Recent Posts
Stephen Unsworth
Stephen Unsworth
Stephen A. Unsworth is admitted to practice in both Vermont and Maine, and has more than 30 years of experience in estate planning and business law. His mission is to provide quality estate planning services, including assistance with Living Trusts, Wills, Medicaid Planning, Probate, Trust Administration, Powers of Attorney, Special Needs Planning, and Family Limited Partnerships Read More!
Stephen Unsworth
Latest posts by Stephen Unsworth (see all)
  • Do I Really Need an Attorney to Create My Vermont Estate Plan? - November 4, 2025
  • 5 Estate Planning Strategies to Help Your Estate Avoid Probate in Vermont - November 21, 2024
  • Preventing Elder Financial Exploitation in Vermont - November 19, 2024

Filed Under: General

Other Articles You May Find Useful

Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC
Power of Attorney in Vermont: What Families Should Know
Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC
What Happens If Your Healthcare Agent Cannot Serve When Needed?
Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC
Questions Families Should Ask Before Naming a Trustee for a Special Needs Trust
Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC
Should You Leave Written Instructions Alongside Your Estate Plan?
Image
Creating an Emergency Care Plan for Your Pets
Image
How Adult Children Can Help Aging Parents Organize Their Legal Affairs

Primary Sidebar

Elder Law and Medicaid Planning Attorneys

Unsworth LaPlante, PLC

Follow Us

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Blog Subscription

Sign up to Unsworth LaPlante's estate planning blog to receive all the latest news and updates.

Essex Junction, VT

26 Railroad Ave
Essex Junction, VT 05452
United States (US)
Phone: (802) 879-7133
Fax: (802) 879-0408

Map

unsworth_sidbr_map

Office Hours

Monday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Tuesday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Wednesday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Thursday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Footer

footer-logo

Providing personalized legal guidance to help families plan, protect, and prepare for the future.

  • Facebook
  • Instagram
  • LinkedIn
  • Twitter
  • YouTube

Who We Are

  • About Us
  • Our Team

Estate Planning

  • Estate planning
  • incapacity planning
  • Pet Planning
  • special needs planning
  • trust administration
  • Young Families Planning
  • Long-Term Care Planning and Elder Law

Resources

  • Articles
  • Elder Law reports
  • Estate Planning reports
  • Estate & gift tax figures
  • Free Estate Planning Worksheet

Business Hours

Monday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Tuesday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Wednesday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM
Thursday8:00 AM - 4:00 PM

Location

Unsworth Map Image

Unsworth LaPlante, PLLC

26 Railroad Ave
Essex Junction, VT 05452
United States (US)
Phone: (802) 879-7133
Fax: (802) 879-0408

The information on this Vermont Attorneys & Lawyers / Law Firm website is for general information purposes only. Nothing on this or associated pages, documents, comments, answers, emails, or other communications should be taken as legal advice for any individual case or situation. This information on this website is not intended to create, and receipt or viewing of this information does not constitute, an attorney-client relationship.

Copyright © 2026 American Academy of Estate Planning Attorneys | All Rights Reserved
DisclaimerPrivacy PolicyContact UsSitemap